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Safety

Online dating can be amazing — but always better when you know how to protect yourself.

Keep Your Messages Monitored

We can detect scams quickly, but only while you stay within our system.

Stay Sceptical (In a Good Way)

Deepfakes can trick anyone. Keep verifying after any video chat.

Think Twice, Click Once

Never send private photos online. Sextortionists exploit trust and use your images against you.

Choose a Daytime Spot

Meet in daylight, somewhere open like a coffee shop or museum, for better safety and comfort.

Stay Accountable

Before your date, let someone you trust know the who, where, and when of your plans.

Bring a Fully Powered Phone

Before heading out, charge your phone and ensure it has enough credit to call.

Meet at the Destination

Travel separately and don’t allow your date to collect or drop you off.

Keep Your Guard Up

Low alcohol helps you spot pushy behaviour and handle it confidently.

Stay Independent and Secure

Don’t go home with your date after meeting for the first time.

Enjoy Good Company

Be yourself, enjoy the chat, and don’t forget to smile.