Asking you to leave the site
We delete most scammers after 24 hours, we need a bit of time to monitor their accounts before banning and erasing them. Scammers know this so they send messages asking you to chat elsewhere. If someone asks you to leave the site within the first few exchanged messages then be aware.
Never send money
If you obey this rule then you can never loose money! Super simple, if someone asked you for a payment then block them right away.
When you meet for a date, tell someone, take your phone, use your own transport and choose a public place.